grrr..grrr...

its a cold spring nite...at 447am liao. here i m readin my article wen my stomach started rumbling non stop..woa so loud sia...time for snack i guess since ive not been snackin whole day. i reached out for my japalang bag hanging at my trolley near the balcony door...hmm wat shall i have..i think i wan arnott's shapes..bbq..long time din eat...so as i sat n munch i blogged hopped from Nur's blog...interesting findings...

"I miss having somebody to send me text messages or emails that will make me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. I miss having someone to talk to and whisper sweet nothing to. Or have someone whisper it to me. I miss feeling excited when meeting that someone. I will of course, be like any other girl, stress over what to wear and how to present myself when meeting him. It is only natural, innit? ;)I miss having that electrifying feeling when we touch each other. I miss looking deep into that person's eyes and reading what he is truly saying behind them. I miss being pampered. And at this very point in time, I am badly in need of a hug and for that someone to tell me that everything is going to be alright.

haha my exact sentiments actually of what im feeling rite now..i hate it wen pple ask me..How r u? ..gosh waddya think.?! im in a total mess rite now lor..
den i read some more other blogs...came across this...

We are all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you have been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavours of wrong.

Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your wrongness. It isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons - your unsolvable problems - the ones that make you who you truly are - that you are ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you are looking for.You are looking for the wrong person.

But not just any wrong person, the 'right' wrong person - someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem I want to have".I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.

-Andrew Boyd
Daily Afflictions

This probably answers the question the singletons ask why they keep meeting the 'wrong' person and have yet to meet THE ONE. I suppose it is true to a certain extent. I have read about something like this somewhere before. I have watched a documentary about this as well. We look for a partner who compliments us in almost every aspect, including genes. For example, the shorty will look for a tall partner. This is mainly because of procreation purposes. By doing so, the shorty hopes that their children will not be short like them. It is a very interesting research area. Us human beings are really complex creatures and I suppose it shouldn't be a surprise that we will do something like this.So, I wonder where is my Mr Wrong?

hehe gal...i jus lurve on entry on tis topic...i think its time tat i look for my mr wrong too...haha

well its jus normal ramblings of life...


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