::: Homely Analytical Nonsensical Intuitive Lady otherwise known as Systematic Arrogant Hackwrench :::

Sunday, October 15, 2006

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hmm i think i posted this long time ago..but in another blog..jus info for my frens who r looking out for me..

The greatest thing I need in him are Principles. I like people who know what they are about & have set standards in their lives. He should know why he is doing what he is doing. He should know what is the ground that hes standing on. He better have faith in all he is & what he wants or has.

With principles, comes the need to be courageous. He should be firm enough to stand for what he believes in irrespective of the opposition he encounters. I am certainly eccentric & would want him to be distinguished as well. Eccentricity requires firmness or its an open opportunity for the mockers. Apart frm that, i love extreme sports so i guess he would be too. Let's say if we went Disneyland for hols, i want to take roller-coaster rides..which i EXPECT tat he will too...

A very important aspect I need is that he needs to be practical. I can't stand people who weave big empty dreams & do nothing with their lives except creating Illusions. Practical means someone who has a good sense of all matters including finances, people & relationships. Work hard but smart in gaining those dreams and aspirations. You may not be the best amongst the rest in what you do but as long as you tried your best, high chances that i will like you.

One thing I have found common between all the people I pick is that they are very intelligent/smart or intellectual. I like having people who don't need too many words to understand something. Sometimes i just don feel like talking most of the time, you have to be able to attract me with 'wisdom' words that can capture my attention.

I'm a smiley person so I love laughter which means tat he definitely needs to have a good sense of humor. I simply adore Witty people. Especially when i am down.

Since I am a better listener than talker so he should be talkative. I am attracted to good conversationalist & orators. (Btw I have a weakness for good come-backs & sarcasm). Yup as mentioned before, i want wisdom words not just 100% crap...

He should be sincerely loving & devoted. In this case, who wouldnt want this rite?

He should be open-minded and versatile. I am liberal in my thinking and my imagination can run wild alot of times. I am too broadminded sometimes so he needs to have an expansive mind as well to tolerate me & for us to stay happy. (plus I like doing my own thing most of the time so he needs to be accepting of that. No sir, no possessiveness for me!)

He should be independent. Able to do things on his own n not rely on others. in a sense that he doesnt depend on his mother to do most of the things also! Even though hes spoilt by her but at least he knows how to operate certain equipments in the house. I know i can fix things in the house but i rather leave those mechanical things to the Men. boost their ego abit la..

Refined Mannerism and knowledge. Know when to speak and when to shut up. know how behave in front of elders and showing gd example to kids. and by that i mean...respecting the elders and NOT smoking in front kids. Yes abit ironic but im working on tat too..haha

At last, Good education. Ok ive climbed all this way in the ladder of education. i expect him to be at least of the same level or higher. hmm if diploma with working experience..i shall consider. Sorry la i noe ive always tried to avoid this narrow thinking but i have to sometimes.. cos its for the future...

Well still have some qualities left such as originality and creativity as well as looks...which i don reli look into unless those above mentioned qualities are all met. then i start lookin thru these 3 factors..still trying to find fault i guess with the guy n refusing him in my life..which then question the fact: is there such guy out there n will i ever meet him? haha

well so anyone know anyone out there that match these qualities? Contact me. Oh boy..tis is fun....

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