::: Homely Analytical Nonsensical Intuitive Lady otherwise known as Systematic Arrogant Hackwrench :::

Sunday, October 22, 2006

In response to TheONE

Firstly, I am a happy-go-lucky person. I can be sensitive at times but yet not be petty on certain things. Hmm more like depending on the situation. I like to be independent to do things on my own. I hate that guys who breathe down my neck, who wants to know every single thing that I do. Personal time is your own reflection time so bugger off.

I live by a set of principles. I know what I want, I set targets for myself. I believe in myself most of the time. I will fight for what I believe in. Although people see me as eccentric, I firmly believe in the values and thoughts that I was brought up with. I am definitely practical in my set of goals. I do things that are within my capability although at times I go beyond them just to test my limits.

I am career-minded at this moment which im afraid would clash with family life if I were to get married. Thus im planning to only get married in the after 5 years. I wanna reach a certain level before I leave the industry. My irregular hours are something most people don't like but however, to me, it's a preparation for my future. There are plans along the way of my life which I hope to accomplish. I wouldn't want to depend on my husband forever. An additional income would be fruitful for the both of us. One thing abt me, I would like to spend my first 6 years of my kid's life together. I want to take care of them and not let someone else do it. Then after that, I will be back in the working world.

I am generally a quiet person unless it's a topic that I'm passionate about or interest me. I seldom express myself such as PDA unless ur a kiddo or a girl. I try to do little things that people take for granted as my show of gratitude. Some people think im tough in that sense but I guess it depends on how u can open me up.

I am very cautious in my selection and once I start loving someone, I give my whole heart and soul towards you. I will care and cherish you and think of the world of you. But don even break the trust I build in you cos once its gone, its going to take super long time for you to gain it back again. Just know that once you have my heart, take care and cherish me, I wont go astray.

My circles of friends are mostly guys. I trust myself not to go overboard with them cos I love every single one of them as my brothers. Most of them are my mates for a very long time thus they know me inside out. That is something that you have to adapt to. I love socializing cos I love making friends. Sometimes I think I connect better with guys rather than girls. Yes I do love bitching about other people but sometimes seeing the way girls do it, it jus irks me. Leave that girl alone la. Shes unique in her own way.

Something that ive been brought up with was that to respect ur elders. No matter wat they are your elders. So far in this department, ive yet to encounter bad moments with my exes mom n dad. In fact for one of them, we even cooked together. Yes I do agree that our thoughts or opinions might clash but as long we compromise and rationale it out, I guess all wins.

I don't get jealous over simple stuffs. Really im not. This is something some people find eccentric abt me. I rather let you have ur independence as compared to pulling you on a leash. I am ok with it as long as you inform me instead of me finding out through others. As long as u know ur limits and not step all over me, Im actually quite relaxed.

I love doing things which are ordinary as well as extraordinary. I love adventures. Being in a jungle or forest, battling trees and mosquitoes intrigued me. Though at times I would love to head down to Orchard n ogle at Coach or Gucci. But to me, the experience of doing something and learning from it is the best thing in life rather than reading or seeing from other's perspective.

And I love housework, cooking and baking esp. Being in Brisbane, shines the domestic side of me which have been hiding for quite sometime.As mentioned before in previous post, i can be a good hostess of the home. entertaining while cooking is currently going to be my forte. haha once u get to knoe me, get to noe my brissy mates. im sure they can vouch for that.

Lastly on the looks section. I admit that im jus a plain jane. I don't have the looks. But im happy with the way I am. Cos I am a full combination of my dad n mum. which im proud of. family to me is the best thing in life.

So what do you think? Holler me back at greentulip18@hotmail.com

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